The healthier we become, the less impact the narcissist will have on us. We all need to be responsible for our own mental and physical health. Healing is 100 percent on you, he emphasizes.
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In a Smart Sex, Smart Love podcast, Matt Phifer, a therapist and expert in toxic relationships, narcissism, trauma and emotional abuse, talks about understanding narcissism and codependency, and how to detoxify from toxic relationships. You won’t change a narcissist, but you can change how you handle yourself and cope more effectively with these situations. You do not have to be a victim in their life of manipulation. Narcissists engage in behaviors that will keep the world around them more comfortable, and they will trap you into believing their way of thinking is the only way of thinking. To learn more about how Master Arch has helped countless people through his work – which he does “very ethically,” he asserts, listen to this podcast. The client is ready to relinquish financial control to me and become my slave.” Like other BDSM activities, financial domination requires boundaries and communication, he adds.ĭuring this Smart Sex, Smart Love podcast, Master Arch also discusses his work as a death escort – helping people who are looking for one last erotic experience – and how people can benefit from talking about fetishes. “We discuss the terms of the relationship beforehand and have a meeting of the minds to ensure all transactions and actions are consensual. It goes beyond fetish in the world of BDSM, and it is ethical, moral and therapeutic, Master Arch notes.
Master Arch has been on the scene a long time and has a great deal to share about the Findom fetish.įinancial domination (also known as Findom) is now more widely accepted it no longer is a passing fad, Master Arch points out during a Smart Sex, Smart Love podcast. “Someone asked me to choke him for a fee, and that is how it all started,” reports Master Arch, a fetish worker, ProDom, fetish creator, death escort and financial fetishist. Nic helps clients understand how touch works, explore touching in ways never tried before, and learn to love the sacred experience.ĭuring a Smart Sex, Smart Love podcast, Coach Nic talks about how men can feel safe and comfortable about their sexual erotic being. It can be as simple as touching a hand, but touching for many brings feelings of shame and guilt. Too many people feel shackled and don’t even know how to ask the questions about their sexual erotic being, he finds. “You marry the ritual of the sacred with the erotic, the body and spirit, and it can be “really delicious,” he professes. In his new profession – he was a reknown musician for more than two decades and then shifted careers to the Catholic priesthood before choosing sexological bodywork – he helps men learn to enjoy their bodies more, deepen their sacred body experience, and open up to the possibility of the erotic body. “Coach Nic” developed Body Prayer to reclaim the Sacred for our Erotic Bodies. Nic Reveles, somatic sex educator and sexological bodyworker, has dedicated the past several years of his life to helping gay, bisexual and queer-identified men recover from the trauma imposed on their bodies by culture, church and family in a centuries’ old attempt to control sexuality and sexual expression. Let’s take a wider look and see what we can learn!
Is there a gender difference? Are women more sexuality fluid than men? Aren’t we “born that way” and we cannot change? Through the years, we have learned to see ourselves through such a small lens, Dr. Diamond discusses the extensive research she has conducted on sexual fluidity, and she shares her findings. Diamond talks about arousal and desire, and emotions and love, which are some of the components of eroticism, but the true mystery of sexual fluidity – why it happens, who experiences it and why – remains a mystery in many ways. In this Smart Sex, Smart Love podcast, Dr. She is best known for her research on sexual fluidity, and wrote a book entitled “Sexual Fluidity,” which received the Distinguished Book Award from the American Psychological Association’s Society forthe Study of LGBTQ issues. Diamond has studied the development and expression of gender and sexuality. What exactly is sexual fluidity? According to Lisa Diamond, professor of Psychology and Gender Studies at the University of Utah, sexual fluidity is the capacity for flexible erotic responses. Can a heterosexual woman unexpectedly fall in love with another woman? Can a gay man eroticize about a heterosexual woman? It is in our human capacity to respond to our sexuality even though society is not quite accepting of sexual fluidity.
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